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Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Tomoe2, Dec 9, 2017.

  1. Tomoe2

    Tomoe2 New Member

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    United States
    If you got it going on... great, you're awesome, and we love you. If you are one that thinks you may need a little more practice in the downtown department, than, please don't hesitate to do so!! With proper knowledge, technique and a lot of practice you, too, can be a rock star!
    Thank you,
    From every Woman ;)

    View: https://youtu.be/QyViuXFyIE4
     
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  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Ahh, one of my favorite tastes in life.
    And that is not an exaggeration

    Always room for variety in technique and improvement
    And make sure to practice, practice, practice

    BTW, thank you SO much to my original source, Sam Kineson, R.I.P.
    He not only made me laugh but he made me learn my ABCs
    And I’m a cunning linguist to this day.
    Some women have truly appreciated my words
     
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  3. Tomoe2

    Tomoe2 New Member

    Location:
    United States
    Youre welcome ;)
    And....one can't get enough practice! Are you a self proclaimed "cunning linguist?" Have you been outright told, by more than a few women, that you are on target? It's so important to know how and I find that many men will think they are doing a good job but really suck at it. I have found through experience, very very very few do and just one partner years ago that was off the clitoral charts and earned the title Captain Cunnilingus.
     
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  4. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    Meh, I'll pass.
     
  5. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North
     
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  6. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Willingness is paramount. If the student is ready, a teacher will appear. If your partner enjoys variety and is willing to communicate, many good things may happen. Hire for character (willingness) train for skills.

    Don't assume that all women love cunnilingus. If she's not into it, all the skills, practice, and technique will not turn her into a warmly sexual being.

    Was this a Freudian slip? Gentle (or perhaps not so gentle) clitoral sucking in and out really rings my gong. Sometimes better than any tonguing technique. But maybe that's just me.
     
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  7. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Uhh, yes @Tomoe2 I’ve been told, often
    But more importantly, it’s to truly know the lady is having a full on orgasm and then some.
    I cannot mistake the reaction both before and after
    And their desire to do it even more, each time

    @Lindy is correct, some like it, some don’t
    Some just aren’t comfortable at first then warm up
    Some prefer dick and only want lick periodically
    Personally, I aim to please.
    So I don’t push or complain
    But if a lady allows me to go to town, then I’ll take the key to the city tour.
    Sometimes it’s too much and they need a break from orgasming too hard or often
    I’m patient...and I’ll wait again to enjoy and give joy.
    It’s all a matter of spending time together and learning what works.

    Some like the alphabet, some sucking, some deep tongue, some nibbling the thighs, some labia licking
    Or alternate or all of the above
    Sometimes it changes

    You see the reaction, you feel her response
    You find out what works for her at that moment

    I just like trying a variety for the pleasure
    Hers and mine

    Hell, I rather give than get.
    It’s a thing I’m into

    I just wish more knew how
     
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  8. Tomoe2

    Tomoe2 New Member

    Location:
    United States
    You are in a class of few. Lucky are the recipients of your talents, @rogue49
    And, clearly not you, but most assume because of any reaction from a woman (besides the obvious moaning etc. ) during sex, that they have it dialed in. Not everyone is equipped with the proper tongue techniques. Or, because he can make her orgasm with dick, it's just as easy with lick. It's not. And, if she is shy about talking about what she would like, then how would her partner ever know.
    When a woman gets head where she has multiple orgasms and needs to take periodic breaks in between, Hell, who would want anything else?
    I, too, wish more knew how.
     
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  9. Tomoe2

    Tomoe2 New Member

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    United States
    Hmmmm, I guess sucking is always on my mind ;)
     
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  10. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    So any other tips or techniques to suggest?
    Mindsets or philosophies?

    I know I'm always open to newer ideas
    And learning new ways.
    Or re-enforcing good ways.

    giving pleasure is a growing experience and on-going endevour.

    I'm sure I'm not the only one in the world who thinks this.

    ladies??
    guys??

    Any input?
     
  11. Tomoe2

    Tomoe2 New Member

    Location:
    United States
    Maybe around here it's a "BJ only" kind of world ;)
     
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  12. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    I don't have a long list of references and techniques attempted, but here are a few techniques that work very well on my wife:

    1.a. Using the flat of my tongue in a vertical/up-and-down motion with constant pressure (but not too much), maintaining a steady rhythm much like following a metronome (she's a music major :p). Increasing the pressure and tempo as she nears orgasm.

    1.b. Since she got her VCH piercing, I use a slightly diagonal direction to the left to push the ball against her clit.

    2.a. Using the tip of my of tongue between the hood and clit, slowly circling her clit.

    2.b. Use the tip of my tongue to push the ball against her clit.

    3. Gently sucking her clit between my lips so that it rubs against the hood.

    4. Knowing when to stop (not as easy as it sounds).
     
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  13. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Cunnilingus is passe. Everyone does it and has at least a basic understanding. Hell, many straight women have even tried it at least once. Eating ass is where it's at. You bend a woman over and spread those cheeks, then she will be putty in your hands. Don't dive straight took the source, though. Start with some nibbles on the cheeks. Til they get ticklish. Then run the crack with your tongue. Finally, spread those cheeks. They like a firm grip. Don't spread too hard, that's uncomfortable. Just strong hands spreading. Then unravel that balloon knot. While you are doing that, Put your thumb in her pussy and dance your fingers over her clit. Women love getting their ass eaten.
     
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  14. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    New meaning to the term "tongue in cheek..."
     
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  15. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I only like receiving oral after a couple drinks. Otherwise I just feel so exposed.
     
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  16. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Fortunately, it's not that hard to find a couple of drinks!:p
     
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  17. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    Does it matter if the lights are off?
     
  18. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Isn't being "exposed" the point? Full access, etc.

    I tell my wife "Show me your clit."
     
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  19. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Nope.
     
  20. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Just because it's the point doesn't mean I like it.
     
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