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Best sex you've ever had

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by J-Ring, Mar 30, 2012.

  1. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    Your inner Tony Robbins in showing. ;)

    Amen.
     
  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Even beyond that...not just a sex between new passionate partners...but those between established couples.
    One thing off, a bad rhythm...not so hot timing...someone came before another, someone didn't come in sync, or not enough.
    The woman wasn't wet enough, the man wasn't hard enough, for long enough...etc, and so on.
    Whatever, anything.

    You have sex as often as you can over a relationship...even if its awesome usually, sometimes... It changes from time to time.
    Sometimes a person just is in a mood for certain expectations...and if those aren't fulfilled....meh.

    And if you're "aware", you can feel the shadow in the air. Nothing even needs to be said.

    Geez...there's been times it's been held against me that I didn't make her have a raving orgasm beyond 3 times in one session.
    People are funny that way.

    Awesome sex isn't just the syncing of the physical and energy levels,
    but its also the syncing of emotional and expectations.

    With someone who doesn't know you at all, or even with someone who loves you and lives with you over years.

    An awkward quickie can be MIND BLOWING, but ends up being what you both wanted and needed. (at that time...)
    Or something that is supposed to be "perfect" is blown by one little thing, either physical or mood.

    Sex is not at all consistent...certainly not linear. It changes.
    You've got to just let it go when it doesn't "hit".
    But you're right, it is worth the risk.
    It's the only way you can get here from there.

    Practice make perfect.
     
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  3. SirLance

    SirLance Death Therapist

    Casual sex, any sex... the dog is starting to look attractive...
     
  4. But she's a real bitch
     
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  5. SirLance

    SirLance Death Therapist

    Yeah, and she never shuts up...
     
  6. Oops, sorry:oops: /zip/
     
  7. Zen

    Zen Very Tilted

    Location:
    London
    This reminds me of a story. Props to the original poster from another forum.

     
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  8. Phi Eyed

    Phi Eyed Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Ramsdale
    I’ll call it non-sex. It was more of a tantric exchange than anything. It was a non-sexual encounter that unfolded into a masturbatory frenzy, after an extended duration together and a cordial handshake goodbye. It was the way he was sitting. The low tone of his voice. That half-moon misty look in his eyes. I barely made it in the door before I worked myself silly.

    Been down that road countless times since the first jerk fest.

    The freaking Devil could not have made him up.
     
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  9. Freetofly

    Freetofly Diving deep into the abyss

    Waterbed sex...
     
  10. Zen

    Zen Very Tilted

    Location:
    London
    Wow .. what you've just written totally uncloaked my Museum of Non-Sex. I generally forget that I ever visited it except when I am in it, and when I'm in it I forget that I've ever been anywhere else.

    As I think back, I realise my response to the various 'exhibits' has been beyond prediction: what is unlocked is what is unlocked and I am typically the last one to know the course or destination of the journey.
     
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  11. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    Say what?
     
  12. Phi Eyed

    Phi Eyed Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Ramsdale
    So yeah. Best was with the self. Open possibility is always more attractive to me than hard-edged conclusions.
     
  13. Poetry

    Poetry Totally Sharky, Complete

    Location:
    Los Angeles, CA
    That's a lot of questions.

    Greatest sex ever? I was 21, rebounding. Met this guy, this incredibly built, 80% tattoo coverage, MMA fighter-type. Hot. Hung-- but not uncomfortably so. He had no real regard for what I wanted, only wanted what he wanted. Which worked out, because what he wanted was exactly what I wanted. So, we (consensually) rape-scened it and, three holes later, I went home.

    That's the only sex that ever made me do that whole "glowing" thing days later. I, for once, was satisfied.

    We had sex twice more over a few years, each was good, still the best partner I've had. First time was the top, though.

    The best sex is three-hole sex, by the way. My fondest sexual memories are those.

    As for my partner's best? I'm not in a relationship now, but my last partner was a porn director. He's fucked upwards of 400 women-- minimum-- and most of those were porn stars and fetish models. It's not a matter of sexual comparison. We have different bodies, different styles, different emotional connections. I was okay with knowing that I wasn't his perfect sexual match and, when I wasn't, it wasn't a matter of ego, it was a matter of wishing I could please him more.

    I find I have two main styles of sex. The first one I listed-- the raw, powerful, overwhelming, no emotion necessary. I love it. But I also enjoy the slow, sensual, marathoners with someone I love so much that all I can do is spend hours worshipping them. One relies on no emotion, one relies on pure emotion.

    It works out.
     
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  14. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Last night takes the cake for me. I was so thoroughly satisfied after we were done. Amazing. It gives me the shivers just thinking about. Hot, animalistic fucking followed by slower and sweeter stuff.
     
  15. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    Nice.
    What kind of sandwiches were on the recovery menu?
     
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  16. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I couldn't even get out of bed to make a sandwich. My legs wouldn't hold me.
     
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  17. curiousbear

    curiousbear Terse & Bizarre

    after 4 years me and SO finally believed we could do doggy, learnt and tried, that was the hottest I remember
    rest of the hottest sex is still in fantasy stage...
     
  18. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    Last night was A-OK.
    Wife said she thought I was trying to kill her (and not in the OJ Simpson kind of way!)
     
  19. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth
    Wait, did we step into a time machine for June of 1994 or did you just botch the punchline?
     
  20. Best sex will be the next time I have sex ha. Which I'm hoping is in a bit with my new fwb, it will our first time alone together