What's an adult problem that nobody prepared you for?

ralphie250 · Sep 10, 2019

GhoastGirl2.0 said: ↑

Hmmm went to the zoo this weekend with hubs and our two girls. Met up with another family from their nursery and proceeded the walk around. Halfway through my youngest (3.5) had an accident in the sandy play area in front of another couple of mothers and their older girls. Hubs and oldest was off doing something else and I was sitting with the other mother and her husband when I heard the people sitting opposite say loudly within earshot of my daughter - "That's disgusting"....my daughter heard them and started to get upset.

To set the scene...this happened within the space of 15 - 30 seconds. I look over to the to mother as I went to my daughter and said "Is there a problem? She's 3, they have accidents, it happens - mind your own business, stop staring and keep your comments to yourself" after I got my daughter and a change of clothes, we walked past them again and after the mother was done gaping at my response to her said "Don't yell at my kids like that" and I shot back "I wasn't yelling at your kids, I was yelling at you and the hideous example of bullying a little kid you're setting" and walked away to get my daughter changed.

I was mildly embarrassed of having reacted that way in front of the my daughter's friend and her parents...but surprisingly they said I did the exact right thing and if a mother couldn't stand up for her kids, then who else would? As much as I have really tried to calm my fiery temperament over the years, these incidents happen from now and then.

I don't know if they teach you how to deal with that kind of shit in the kids books...but I was not prepared for how to deal with another mother shaming my child in public. Completely out of left field. Maybe I was wrong...or could have handled it differently...but when someone else makes my kid feel inadequate in an already difficult situation I cannot stand for that.
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I agree with the above people are just self-centered. Accidents happen all the way up until we die. I'll tell you I have pooped myself before and I'm a grown ass man. But you had the same reaction that most people would have had. I personally have a really bad temper so Lord knows what I would have said or done. But on the bright side you went to the zoo and had a wonderful family day that's all that matters

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Frankie · Nov 14, 2019

ED. I used to get a hard-on when the wind blew when I was young. I was totally unprepared for Erectile disfunction.

DAKA · Nov 14, 2019

Welcome to .... geezer land

ralphie250 · Nov 15, 2019

Frankie said: ↑

ED. I used to get a hard-on when the wind blew when I was young. I was totally unprepared for Erectile disfunction.
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I was the same way when i was younger, i have the same issue now... but i blame it on meds

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