Is everyone's woman one drink away?

I've found that fantasy rarely translates into reality without some kind of awkwardness, weird guilt, social/relationship repercussions, etc.

I've realized it's kind of an art to figure out which things inside your head translate into good real-life experiences, and somethings do line up very nicely - you just have to figure out which carnal acts speak directly to your subconscious sex drive and primal desires.

The retards who are saying that all women are a drink away from being lesbians are the same retards who saw the high-school/college girls get mildly drunk at house-parties and keggers and then start making out with each other, and these retards and their little moron brains could not comprehend that the girls were never doing this ridiculous exhibitionism to "explore their sexuality," they were doing it to make themselves the center of male attention at the party. If you have a slightly bisexual or bi-curious side, and want to genuinely explore it, 99% of the time you're going to do it with a trusted acquaintance that you're comfortable with in private, not in front of a bunch of hooting, drunk, horny, male retard onlookers.

See: Daddy's Money Lesbian

See Also: Fesbian (Fake Lesbian)
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Having been involved with both I have to say that it's a challenge for a man to properly satisfy one woman much less two, so if the woman aren't into doing anything with each other, you are in for a interesting night.
I recommend keeping lots of whatever stimulants you enjoy most readily available.

For the other combo you have the whole crossing swords issue.
If one of the males is really uncomfortable with guy on guy part it can get a bit tricky.
In general I recommend you make sure the people in the trio are actually as open minded as they say they are.

Finally people fantasize about things all the time but they tend to skip over the actual engineering of the situations.
It's like watching how hard it is for even a professional stripper to get out of a pair of tight jeans in a graceful manner.
Nothing ever works quite to plan and if you don't keep your sense of humor, the sexy is going to be sad.

 

How do you know a fantasy is just that, and one you do not want to try. I have always been very sexual but I am very loyal, and only want to be with one man. I tried my fantasy a little when I wan younger, and did not know myself, but thought every couple did this, and I will do anything once,. Now, I know myself pretty darn well , probably more that I want to...lol
I am almost in the same spot again thinking...are my fantasy's something I want now that I am older, and with my limits whatever they might be, or am I the same young girl who has the thoughts and will hate it?
I have met my person who I want to give myself to, and I know all is great for 5-10 years, and lust, and love, and every new thing slave, or dom is great. Does every couple need eventually to try something else, and how do you really make it with one person you and him 20 years? Is that only a dream for normal people who plant flowers, and mow lawns on weekends? lol Before you tell me you are all faithful and have been together for 20 years, please remember we are on site devoted to sexuality.

 

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I'm willing to bet that if women started telling guys it would be hot to see them make out with each other, then you'd start to see a lot of man on man action. But of course guys would end up taking it too far.
Future conversation:
"Dude she's looking at us. Put your tongue in my ear" "ok, she is definitely watching us. Put your hand in my pants".
"Does she have her phone out? I'm totally going to rim you while she puts it on her facebook page".
Dude, she says we're really hot. I'm going to cum in my own mouth."
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I don't drink. But are you a two pump chump or do you have some stamina? The first two couples my girlfriend and I were with the guys did not last very long. Also, your ability to carry on a conversation would be highly valued. There are too many people who don't have the ability to be attractive once they start talking.

 

Yes, it is.

 

That's like, your de-facto reply to everything unconventional and sexual... Maybe you should see a therapist..? Not that there's specifically anything wrong with you as-is, but you might end up having all kinds of more-diverse sexual fun - and that would be a pretty cool life improvement right?

 

Threesomes dynamics from my experiences (straight male, bi female).

MFM - difficulty easy. Even if both guys are straight, you have two ends to work with. Assuming you are using condoms you have no mess after the first is done. So you both can have sex with her, so you get your rocks off and she gets double the fun. I've never played the DP game and have even less interest in the DVP or god help you DAP some get into.

FMF (both girls bi) - moderate difficulty. Pleasing the women is easy, you can both go down on her at the same time (which is awesome) or take turns while the other works the top. The girls can also both work you at the same time (which is awesome). The only really difficulty comes intercourse time. Do you try to split it? Do you alternate? Are you done once you finish? Generally I favor the new woman in this, sort of like "guests first". Favorite move is the doggie 69. You have sex with one woman doggie style while they 69 at the same time. General response from the top woman is "best sex ever".

FMF (one girl straight) - hard difficulty. As the man you generally do more work then the women. You can do both at the same time with your hands or one on your face one blowing you, etc, but its difficult. While in a MFM you focus on the woman, in an FMF there is generally less focus on the man, so the man tries to do two things at once. When I've done this its doable but you don't enjoy it as much as you feel the pressure of keeping two women pleased at the same time.

Now for the bi part. If the woman is only one drink away, then shes already there. Its more like 3-5 drinks, as some need that excuse for their behavior. A lot of bi women or bi curious women don't like to admit it, alcohol isn't what relaxes them or reduces their inhibitions as much as giving them a "cover" story for later. "Oh I'm not really like that, I was drunk".

The "bad" kind of bi for women is what I'd call "show bi" thats the "we will do some bisexual things because guys think its hot but I'm not really into women". True bisexual women will usually find that a turn off and its apparent when its going on. Its hard to feign sexual excitement.

 

I always thought this would be the case.

 

Not trying to kill the buzz....but it seems like times are changing. My daughter and friends say they are Bi now, and have really no clue what this means. I promise you, when I was younger and in school I did not see a female as an option, it was not on my radar.
Herculite seems to have a test market, and has thought through this dynamic. lol I have really heard it for years that men think this is hot, and every woman really secretly want one another. I think Omega is right as well, and if every woman went around and said we wanted to see men kiss ....they would.
Guy, on Guy action sounds good until you see it in person, or video. It's just not okay. I really hate to agree with men on this, but two women are just a lot better. I can share I did strap one on and made love to my husband, and as hot as I thought it was at the time...later I did not think so. I guess I am old fashioned, and just want a man to be a man, and I learned from it. I guess I have a double standard and do not want to see my husband taking one.

 

O, my head.

 

@becauseican6872, I have to take issue with some of your comments. Me taking a strap on does not make me less of a man. Just like you wanting to be submissive does not make you any less of a woman. It's your choice, and it's my choice. As far as what turns you on, that's your choice. And if two guys want to go at it, then great. More power to them. But at least you admit you have a double standard.

 

What changed your mind about the strap-on that you initially found hot?

What Omega posted.