I can't seem to help myself

Aaaand now there's a wet spot on that chair.

 

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Okay, so I'm flirting with the Mhong woman, and having a great time. She speaks 4 languages and english is one of them. Broken for sure, however, workable. 3 boys, oldest 18. She's 35 and is married. 20 years now. Ya'll doing the math? She brings me a gift of food, dried fruit snacks. A note saying she likes me. I want this womans attention and so does my penis. I have to stop! She is married, maybe not happy, still not right, but I can't seem to help myself.

 

Dude, I know you know better and really don't need me to say anything but really stop.
It's just not worth it.

Seriously, I got into one of those things where I thought it was understood we were just flirt talking and there was nothing else going on, made sure to establish I was married, had no interest in anything happening but if she wanted to talk that was okay.
It was great at first and went south really fast.
You might think you have lines drawn but you have no idea she is on that.

 

Wise men tread lightly while fools rush in.
Really wise men don't go there in the first place.

Plus one for what @redravin posted. Meaningless flirting can be an ego boost, but it requires both parties to know it's meaningless and will remain so.

 

Okay, so I decided to go all in and tell her all I wanted was sex. That the idea of twisting her like a pretzel was making me happy....

No no I didn't, just broke it off quick and said we could just be friends.
However the latter does make me smile.

 

Smart man !!

 

In the short term it would have been more funnerer for all us armchair observers had you gone for sexy fun time together.
In the longer term (in this case defined as anything beyond an hour, or less if you both came quicker) you did the right thing.

 

Yep, here I am again. I must be on the hunt. " Got seven women on my mind." The little Mjong chick doesn't want to leave it alone. I am going to attempt a photo and post her here. She wrote me a one paragraph note in reasonably good English. For someone that I haven't as much as touched, she thinks about me, apparently ALL the time. And I must have this low self-esteem, where these small amounts of praise just suck me back in. One woman at the bank reminds me of The Captain of the Gaurd in The Hobbit. On my way out I flashed her the peace sign and she said " live long and prosper." Then the Physicians Assistant, 58 and sexy. She gave me a quick background rundown like speed dating and gave me the look on her way out. I almost stopped in today to leave her my contact info. But I thought thAt might be weird. The list goes on. Our HR lady is 50 and does boot camp. She stood beside me in a meeting and put the Palm of her hand gently on arm. And left it there for a solid minute. Until we both knew. The black chick stopped me Monday and said she was still wanting to come over and see me even though she has her man and " I'm all hooked up with that girlfriend that's half in and out the door." I have been putting out them vibes, good to see it's still working.

 

OMG, Didn't see it coming. Sandy sent me a break up text. I text back and said" please let's do this in person, not through text." Then a few hours went by and she started sex texting me. Confused I am.

 

Definitely time to start banging the chick from work.

 

It sounds as though your free to play the field. Go for the unattached--no need to deal unnecessary complications--women.

Have fun!!

 

I am in trepidous territory

 

Okay so some time has passed and the Hmong chick and I have been talking, just as friends nothing special. You know, a couple minutes during each break at the most and after I've smoked a Pall mall. Last week was Valentine's and I took the week off to finish my barn. Still not done. However this is not where the story is going. Today, my first day back, she walked up at 7:30 and told me she was sick and needed to stay home but wanted to see me. Then at 4:30 on her way out she handed me a Valentine's card with a rose inside.

 

Yes I know, Yes I want to, Yes I will take my time. Yes she wants this less than average typical white D. And I am going to pound her.....no, nope.....she is going to ride me! Oh YEAH! YEAH!