Quadrette and I always keep each other appraised of where we are but we try not to overdo it to the point of obsession. If she goes out on a Friday or Saturday night and I choose to stay home, all I ask is that she give me a general idea of when she might be home, so I don't stay up worrying, and that she give me a call if her plans change. I don't expect her home at a certain time; I just want to be able to sleep and not worry about it.
I always call when I'm going to be late. It's almost always met with groans and whines, but I wouldn't feel right not telling her.
We also make sure to call each other before bed if one of us is not home, so the other knows not to call.
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