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whoa......the last thing I want to look like here is a guy who is ready to dump his girlfriend cause she put on a few pounds, has lost some libido, and isn't as much fun as she used to be!!!
-I meant that guys cheat on their gf's because they aren't satisified sexually or physically and instead of working the problem through they just get up and leave!!!
-I am an affectionate person...jsut apparently not as much as she would like (i guess).....and I don plenty of romancing....I'm an advocate for equal give and take folks....I'm not simply a taker!!
-the whole beginnings of this thread were....how can I communicate effectively with her...that I am not happy with some aspects......without hurting her feelings. I want this to be constructive not destructive
...some suggestions have been helpful and have broaden my view to give me a better understanding of how I should approach this. I thank you for those suggestions.
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