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Old 04-25-2004, 07:39 PM   #13 (permalink)
sexymama
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What you believe in becomes your Truth --

It is difficult to be light about this. In my former marriage I found that my ex and I looked at things that occurred in our lives in two completely different ways. I remembered B and he remembered A or vise versa. These memories, which were our personal truths, determined how we reacted to each other in the future and ultimately led to the end of the marriage. (Well, that and a lot more!) But, what it came down to, for me, is that his truth, although he believed it whole-heartedly, was much too "bent" for me to be able to buy into. In other words, he lied to himself so much that he began to believe it as truth.

That said, I do believe that our truth becomes our reality. I think we just have to be careful as to what that truth is and how we react to it. Personally, I think it is vital to stay open to new ideas and personal growth.
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