Great to see this thread has already degraded so fast...
Oh and I'll leave it at this:
You are who are you are. Nothing will change that. Your perspective? More often than not, it will not change either, because you are who you are.
One person sees a problem, another doesn't.
No amount of talking is going to change a person's mind when they're not going to be open about it. Claim it as you wish, but honestly unless you find a way to change races (unlikely) and start over (maybe in a few centuries
) then there's not much that's going to change because this is all SUBJECTIVE on our feelings, emotions, and experiences.