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Originally posted by R3d
you alway test drive a car before buying it right?.. same thing goes for relationships in my opinion..
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i do not like this metaphor with cars apropos to women, as though they are just an object, a product or a commodity. i think this kind of attitude directly leads to relationships being commodities themselves. but on any event, i agree that having sex before marriage is needed simply in knowing how you work together. compatibility also includes sexual compatibility. the best kinds of relationships involve intimacy, commitment AND passion. to lack any of these is to lack a full sense of a relationship. human beings are sexual by nature, and denying this by trying to stay celibate is unhealthy.