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Old 08-04-2004, 08:08 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Meh...I'm not seeing why you'd want to go. You weren't in love with her before; in the last year, she met someone and got married and divorced; and now she wants to pay to fly you to come visit? Just from what you've said, she doesn't sound like the smartest cookie in the box, and it sounds like she has some emotional expectations (despite her protest that she just wants to be "umm....friends") that you're still not ready for or interested in. If you really WANT to be "umfriends" then hell, go for it, but I think you're walking into the equivalent of an emotional ambush, and I'd go in with my eyes wide open and my spidey senses on high alert if I were you.
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