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Old 08-08-2004, 08:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
Ryan
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Can't get over her, for the millionth time..

Well it's another relationship advice thread, and my situation is pretty generic also it seems. Anyways, i figured I would post and see if anyone could help smack some sense into me.

Problem - I still like the girl, I broke up with, and its killing me.. Yea, you've heard it all before

Backstory - We met about 8 months ago, messed around for a couple of months when we first met, then dated for 4 months.

We then broke up two months ago, and still remained really close friends. Like we would hang out all the time. Things were basically the same as when we were going out, just no "nookie."

Anyways, about a month ago I told her I still liked her and stuff, she said she felt the same, and we had a great night together. Then the next day we got into a big fight and I blew up at her, and she basically told me we would never be again.

Current - So now a month after that we are still hanging out about once a week, talk everyday online and on the phone etc. Its like we are great friends, and she seems perfectly content with that, however, its killing me!!

To complicate matters even more, her best friend and my best friend have been dating for quite some time now. Which means it would be hard to just up and stop seeing her...

Anyways, I think my problems came from not taking time off from her when we broke up and I mean she is content because im always here for her etc. Im becoming "that guy."

I dont know what to do!

I've been with other girls since we broke up, I do activities to keep my mind off her etc. I just want to be with this girl more than anything, because I feel like we could be great together if we had another chance..

What should I do? I've talked to her about my feeligns before and we always have a good heart to heart and the past time two times I talked to her we had sex afterwards, but then the next day, its as if we are still friends again and nothing more... Should I talk to her one last time?

Thanks in advance for the input, and sorry about the long post.
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