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Send the letter. What harm could it do? Perhaps she has been thinking of you as well. It would be a shame to go on the rest of your life knowing that you never got to say the things you wanted to say.
I am also wondering if there is something else going on in your life that has caused you to think of her in this light, even though it has been 5 years since you spoke. Do you find yourself continually comparing every girl or guy to her? You mentioned both so I assume you have tried different avenues? Do you think you are even giving an honest attempt at getting to know these people? I am just curious.
I have dwelled on 1-2 girls in my past. Besides them walking all over me and/or cheating on me, they were perfect in my eyes. Soon after the breakups, I found myself comparing all the good qualities they had to the new ones I was going out with. I wouldn't do it for too long because the bad stuff that happened soon crept in and changed my opinion of them. 5 years though.......Keep us posted. Good luck!
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