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murph · 10-31-2004, 01:33 PM

Two things: Why and How

Why: I thought of the idea before I ever saw it in a porno (I had an overactive imagination for a 15 year old, I guess). At the time I couldn't have given you a "why", it just seemed like it might be really fun to do. Now, almost 20 years later, I can explain that there's a bit of a domination kick in it. The woman you love, the woman you are spending your life with, has just submitted to you 110%. There's a charge in that. The same as there's a charge for her when I submit to her straddling my mouth and her grinding. Both are different than regular oral sex, which is more of a "I'll give you this pleasure" than the "I will take this pleasure" of the facial.

How: Seriously, talk to her. My wife and I have known one another for several years. We've learned a very valuable lesson in the bedroom: talk to one another. Talk about what turns you on. Initally, she didn't want me to cum on her face. I had told her my desire and she said no. I was fine with that. But the next time she was going down on me, we just so happened to be in the position where I was standing and she was kneeling. As I began to cum, she pulled me out of her mouth and let me shoot all over her breasts. I told her how much I loved that she did that and it became a part of our routine. Now, every so often, without my asking, she will tell me to cum on her face.

All I ever did was share my fantasy. It was MONTHS before anything happened with it. So, talk to her and be patient and see what happens.

10-31-2004, 01:33 PM	#30 (permalink)
murph Upright	Two things: Why and How Why: I thought of the idea before I ever saw it in a porno (I had an overactive imagination for a 15 year old, I guess). At the time I couldn't have given you a "why", it just seemed like it might be really fun to do. Now, almost 20 years later, I can explain that there's a bit of a domination kick in it. The woman you love, the woman you are spending your life with, has just submitted to you 110%. There's a charge in that. The same as there's a charge for her when I submit to her straddling my mouth and her grinding. Both are different than regular oral sex, which is more of a "I'll give you this pleasure" than the "I will take this pleasure" of the facial. How: Seriously, talk to her. My wife and I have known one another for several years. We've learned a very valuable lesson in the bedroom: talk to one another. Talk about what turns you on. Initally, she didn't want me to cum on her face. I had told her my desire and she said no. I was fine with that. But the next time she was going down on me, we just so happened to be in the position where I was standing and she was kneeling. As I began to cum, she pulled me out of her mouth and let me shoot all over her breasts. I told her how much I loved that she did that and it became a part of our routine. Now, every so often, without my asking, she will tell me to cum on her face. All I ever did was share my fantasy. It was MONTHS before anything happened with it. So, talk to her and be patient and see what happens.