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Fuck buddies existed for me before I got married...haha!
Really, I knew one in my early 20s - actually from 19 to 21. That was rare. I don't know if she really qualified as a fuck buddy because she was my girlfriend's best friend. Honestly, she propositioned me for casual sex and at the time, I was 19, I thought I'd regret it if I did do it and I'd regret it if I didn't do it. Now, looking back, I realize that there were many more hot women after that one and the greater regret was losing the woman I loved(eventually after I was caught).
After that I didn't know any fuck buddies until my later 20s. Then I found them quite often. Sometimes they were married, oftentimes they were about to get a divorce. Anyway, the casual sex thing did fulfill a need I had for quite awhile because I had just exited a marriage. At that time I viewed women as tools to fulfill my needs and thats all I needed. Finally I met my current and final wife and I'm happy and fulfilled. However, it wasn't sex that made us true...it was our personality and chemistry.
I know so many guys that marry the first woman they fuck. If only they could enjoy fuck-buddies, than they could wait for the right match to come along. Believe me, the fuck buddies are out there.
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