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Originally Posted by cavu
18, she is not really attached, it is like yeah i kind of have to deal with him for a while longer. I guess i will play it cool, which is what i have been doing, but she keeps wanting to talk and hang out, it is kinda hard.
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You can use the "shes not really attached" thing to justify it all you want, but face facts.... she has a boyfriend. So, she wants to hang out? So what! I want to hang out with my guy friends, and I have a boyfriend. They want to hang out with me, and they have girlfriends. You do know that men and women can be friends and not be in a relationship, right?
If you have feelings for her which make it hard for you to be around her, then you need to buck up and talk to her about it. "Suzy, I really like hanging out with you, but you know I have feelings for you. So just know that it's a bit weird for me sometimes, but I'll get over it. You're a good friend and I don't want to lose that."
Can you do that?