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Originally Posted by Suave
Not entirely true RatBastid. If you know the kind of person people like, you can act that way and they then have a higher chance of liking you. Hell, you could even change your whole personality if you care to.
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You know, I actually don't believe you can. Not like "people are a fixed way", more like "trying to change never works".
But you CAN take all that self-consciousness out of the way if you stop worrying so much about having people like you. Do that, and you might find--purely as a side-effect--that your personality alters, or a confident, fun side emerges. But "trying to act" confident and fun is NOT the same as actually
being confident and fun.