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Originally Posted by Squishor
The thing about the train was meant to be sort of humorous.  |
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I am saying putting self first in terms of basics, yes. Like if I don't make sure I have the means to feed myself I will die. If I don't make sure I can house myself I will be homeless. So if my friend or my sister or anyone else wants a loan and that's my rent money, sorry but self comes first.
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Hmmm, yeah I guess we are interpreting things differently.
About your rent money scenario, I would give one of my sisters a loan but only if their need were more important than my paying rent. I know that none of my family or friends would ask me to do something like that unless it were very important, so if they did ask and I felt the need was dire enough, then I would give them the money. I know they would do the same for me if I really needed it.