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Originally Posted by keyshawn
Once in a while, I'll wonder - where's my future wife [or girlfriend] at right now ? What is she doing ? Does she ever think about this exact thing [wondering about me] ?
[All this, though, presuming that I'll get married].
I'm not sure what to draw [if anything] out of it. I don't harp on it, it's just something that will just randomly pop in my thoughts.
Has anyone else ever done this, or even talked about it with their SO/spouse ?
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my philosophical musing of the day.
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I can understand your point with this post,
keyshawn. Often I also find myself wondering if I'll ever get married, and if that is the case then I wonder what my future spouse would think of me if she were to meet me today or if she had known me back when I was in high school.
I have never had much luck in the field of dating but I've had some experiences I'm not proud of, and I wonder if this would diminish my value in the eyes of my future spouse if she were ever to find out.
Nevertheless, what I should really ask myself is whether my future spouse even exists or if I am deluding myself when I think of the possibility of getting married in the future.