As you have realized, jealousy is more about you than her. What you have to remember about relationships is that if you two are meant to be with each other it will work out. You can certainly help the situation by talking a bunch and sharing as much time together as possible. Jealousy just takes away from the pleasure of the relationship. If it isn't going to work out, she is going to leave you or you will leave her regardless of your jealousy. Enjoy the relationship for what it is and the time you are together rather than focusing on what could happen. I spent a bunch of time when I was younger getting jealous, and it was all about me feeling insecure about my desirability in my SO's eyes. Once I met the right woman, it all worked out.
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