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Originally Posted by dlishsguy
tecoyah, so whata re u suggesting..
lets just say that it really was a spur of the moment thing..are u suggesting he make the call...
"hunny, im just about to tie up and rub my best friend in baby oil..thought id let you know..ciao..lotsa love hun xxooo"
it was a spur of the moment..maybe he had been thinkinga bout it before hand, but thats not a crime...
its a tough call, but i say dont tell and save ureself the headache..
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What I am saying is simple:
He had a descision to make, and chose to explore a sexual fantasy. Nothing wrong with that. He did not communicate with his girlfriend that he was doing so. Something wrong with that. They will both be hurt, and the relationship(trust) damaged. I think we call this.......reality.
But of course....that is only my opinion.