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I agree with apolian. Most online site have an uneven ratio of guys to gals. Java Life is like 10:1. So any a lot of messages you send with get gobbled up into some kind of mush that is a full inbox of messages to delete.

For fun, I heard a guy tested this theory my opening an account as a women. Provided no pic and left the profile blank. For some reason, it would still receive messages daily. All they know is that it might be a woman.

Try writing, "I like sex" in your profile. see how that works. Personally, I think you're better off at the grocery store or library. Don't think about it, that'll just make you nervous.

Just do it.

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Roger Zelazny