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Old 08-16-2005, 02:42 PM   #8 (permalink)
maleficent
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I've been thinking that maybe we do need to postpone the wedding for a while. I would really hate to do that. I keep thinking about all the people and all the time and money put into this so far.
if money is the only reason preventing you from postponing the wedding, that's the really the worst reasons... marriage is hard enough, you want to go into it being completely sure that you are ready and that this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with...

What's the worst thing that will happen if you wait 6 months... you will still love him... he will still love you... (and if that changes, well better to find out before you said I do, because it's a lot harder to walk away from)

Getting married is probably the biggest moment of your life, it will also be your happiest... make sure that you are doing it for the right reasons withthe right person.
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