Islandflea, it sounds like we are married to the same man.
It is frustrating to be the only one in the relationship attempting to initiate sex. In my case I gave up. I can count on one hand how many times we've *done it* since we got married almost a year ago, and that was only in the first 2 months. Nothing since then! I used to just look at him and it would get me going. Now, I feel like the spark is completely gone. He has even made the choice to sleep on the couch most nights - i think because he is afraid that I'll *try something*! Our marriage has been reduced to pecks on the cheek. Talk about frustrating!
