I know more than a few women who were party animals in their teens and twenties, but who managed to settle down and are now happily married with families. In fact, I married one
But then my wife never did anything like you describe either . . . .
If I were you and this was a relationship I wanted to hold on to, I'd (1) forgive her, and (2) let her know in no uncertain terms that this is not acceptable. Long distance relationships though are a real test of your willpower and commitment. Viel Glueck!