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Ah rudeness. That one's difficult for me, too, and ties into my lack of assertiveness.
I'm not sure I could view being fondled by anyone other than a lover in any way other than threatening.
I've seen Sissy have to put up with it nearly every time we flew anywhere in the US when she was still pre-op. It upset her a little, but she got over it quickly, and just chalked it up to it being one of the prices she had to pay for her condition.
Maybe it's a little more intense for me because I find being touched sexually by a man under any circumstances distasteful. Maybe not. It's hard to say for sure, which is why I think discussions like this can be productive.
Gilda
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