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Old 11-28-2005, 10:36 AM   #39 (permalink)
Cimarron29414
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Originally Posted by Mantus
NO KISS?! Oh well, it can work to this relationships advantage.

It sounds like you developed a great connection to her. Wonderful! Next date, work on developing intimacy. Touch her, getting your body closer to her, if she indicates intrest (you know how to notice this don't you?) end the night with a kiss. Trust ME. Sounds like she is really into you. I am very happy for the two of you.

Take it easy and enjoy the weekend jbleed

jbleed - do NOT end the night with a first kiss! START the night with a kiss! It always works better because there isn't any buildup. Go pick her up, walk up to the door, she opens it, say "Hi", and move in with a soft kiss on the lips. No tongue. That way, only one of you has anxiety about the moment and it will be much more enjoyable. Secondly, you don't have to worry what she thought about it for the next 8 hours apart. And lastly, it is a nice transition towards a "real" kiss. It breaks the ice without going over the top. Every time I did this (back in the stone ages), things progressed much easier than waiting on the dreaded end of the night uncomfortable BS.
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