mayaj

This is awkward for me but I guess I should just come out with it. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a great relationship and a pretty good sex life except for one bizzare problem. After we have sex I bleed. After being baffled about it for months (and visits to several doctors that all said I was normal) I've figured out that he has thick, stray hairs on his penis that abrade me during intercourse. (It took me a while to figure out that this was the problem because his penis looks pretty normal) I'm on birth control, we're exclusive and he can't come with a condom on. Although our sex life isn't bad, it's inconvenient for me to be in pain after we have sex and it also means that we can only do it once a week. It also means that sometimes I feel afraid or reluctant to do it. It's not an enormous problem but it's taking its toll. I'm at a loss as to what we can do. Waxing? I'm positive that he wouldn't want to see a "beautician" about this. I could wax him I guess, but I'm worried about hurting him or causing ingrown hairs. The same goes for plucking, I mean, the pain will probably be excruciating for him. I don't think that a depilatory cream will do the trick. I have never heard of anything like this before. The friends that I actually have told have never heard of such a thing and have no idea as to how to advise me.

Any ideas?