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I'm just trying to be practical.
My observations have let to the view that the end of most relationships comes about because of one or the other partners has cheated, to a lesser or greater degree. For example, many relationships start before the last one has been ended.
I've seen some amazing stats on "cheating" (of which there are clearly different types) - and it also seems that many influential musicians, scientists, thinkers, politicians are on record as having a history of cheating or messing around in a way that makes me suspicious.
So, out of practicality, I seperate the moral judgement from other areas. As I say too - I have been friends with people who've cheated. There's not much that can be done really. Generally, I just add a mental note and continue to deal with the person.
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