I think my opinions on criticism coincide with my opinions on praise. While my parents didn't praise me alot, they also never criticized much either, at least not in a positive way that would help me learn. I believe that criticism can be both positive and negative, depending on who is giving it, the context it is given in, and the tone of it.
I agree with this statement:
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Originally Posted by JinnKai
The question, however, is whether you want to change. I think the people with the most difficulty taking criticism are those who don't want to change. And that's fine. You really shouldn't criticize someone who doesn't feel the need to change, because then it becomes self-serving criticism.
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I used to take criticism way too personally and get extremely upset. I have learned over time to listen and learn. Some criticism is worth listening to if it means improving myself.