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Originally Posted by abaya
The whole thing just sounds like an unhealthy relationship (in the other thread). I think Shani (and Tippler) was pointing that fact out... not that people should be obsessed with each other, but that they should at least *want* to spend quite a bit of time together. Why else would you be dating/married to someone??
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Meh... Nothing is wrong with my relationship (Aside from the little bumps in the road here and there). Nowhere did I ever state that I didn't want to spend time with my girlfriend, and even stated that I enjoy being around her. As is, we spend a ton of time together during the week doing just about whatever. In fact, when I'm not in class or at work, I'm usually doing something with my girlfriend (95% of the time, at least).
The point I was trying to make, however, is that there's a difference between wanting to spend time with her and wanting to be around her all day, every day, 365 days a year (366 a leap-year). There are times when I simply want to do things which don't involve her being around.
This is my view and my view only, but if you're wanting to spend 100% of your time-- All the time-- With someone, then you might be a bit obsessive and/or possessive.