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I've had long-term relationships with women that I've slept with on the first date. When I say long-term I mean longer than 6 months. Most of my ex-s and I are still on friendly terms to this day.
The last person I had sex on the first date with ended up in a long term relationship as well. We've been married 7 years now. We dated for 8 years before that. There was a short mutual break-up during the 8 years to be sure that we were "right" for each other. I can't speak for her, but during the 18 months that we were apart I really never stopped thinking about her, despite a few attempts at dating other women. I know she dated other men, but I can't be 100% sure if she thought about me or not. She says she did; so that's what I believe.
You have got to leave all expectations and hang-ups behind you when getting into a relationship with a new person. There's really no reason to hang on to jealousy or crap like "numbers." There is no room for a bloated ego in any relationship.
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