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Originally Posted by Xera
I talked to my husband about this thread last night and he had an interesting theory that I would like to pose and perhaps get some feedback on. He said, when men are expecting nurturing from a woman, the woman tends to begin feeling 'maternal' and that he thinks this can really cool of a womans intimate feelings. I'm not sure I agree with him, though I do know I am far more likely to be nurturing to kids than to any grown up regardless of gender
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I definitely wouldn't rule that out.
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*sigh*... isn't it the guy who's supposed to be afraid of commitment? We were always more than friends with benefits. I think she became afraid to admit that to herself though....
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which is why I think violating that rule makes them run. Sure, as rational adults we'd all like to think we're... well, rational, and that we can communicate that way. However, I think the cavepeople instincts lurk not-too far under the surface and drive our actions more than we'd like to admit.