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Old 04-02-2007, 01:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
vanblah
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Quote:
Originally Posted by lightmayo
My suggestion for you as a father is to have kids of your own, you will then understand what it's really about love and being loved.

The birth of my son lead me to a emotional secured level like never before, I got into better terms with my father, children is a gift for us to treasure, it's not a burden to anyone
I have a 5-year-old daughter. I came to terms with my feelings about my parents long ago.

EDIT:

I agree with you 100% as it pertains to myself. However, not everyone in the world (or on the TFP) would agree with about children being a gift and not a burden. I do not hold a grudge against my parents for not wanting children. I don't hold a grudge against anyone for that matter.

Some people just are not cut out to raise children ...

Last edited by vanblah; 04-02-2007 at 02:19 PM.. Reason: because I was interrupted at work
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