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However, some people, like me, can't distinguish feelings from sex. I'd love to be able to, but I can't. So rather than put myself through anything that's just going to make life more complicated, I just hold out for people I actually give a crap about.
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Yeah, that was me too - or I thought. Then after it was so long - the next guy I was with I had feelings for but we weren't dating - then from there I started to "learn" I guess, how to appreciate sex for sex. Just the feeling of sex and the goodness that comes from it.
Not that I am saying you should feel that way - but you may suprise yourself if you ever do end up in those situations..I did.
Anyway - MyFriendly - I just read your blog about your 6 year thing and if you should tell the chick or not..I say tell her - why not? If it is someone you care about - she will understand and prolly be glad she is someone you feel is worth diving back into the sexual world with, after all these years!
have fun!