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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
yes.
date with and sleep with as many as you feel comfortable with.
if that is only 1, then it's one. If it's multiples, it's multiples. Be open and honest with those you date, and expect the same kind of honesty in return.
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Yep. I once went through a period in my life where I was sleeping with two men (separately) on a casual basis. I was clear with both men that we weren't exclusive, and that I saw other people. I also dated a few guys during this time period; they always knew that I wasn't looking for anything serious or exclusive. Two years later, I was engaging in a casual sexual relationship when I met my future SO. I broke off the casual sexual relationship prior to engaging in anything intimate in my new relationship. I felt that was what had to be done in that case, because it was far more serious.
It's all situational--where you are in life, what you're looking for, what happens.