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Old 05-01-2008, 09:06 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by engineering83
...I am frustrated with my own shortcoming as described in the OP...her and our relationship makes me want to get over my own weaknesses, and I really only hope that I can so that I can enjoy everything for what it is.
That's it in a nutshell. You're hoping. It's not going to go away by itself and overanalyzing and overthinking is what's driving you nuts.

Let it go. It's that simple. If it's your shortcoming, only you can resolve it. If you think you're incapable of letting go, you won't. You have to make your mind up that you have let it go. Take a deep breath, then expel the thoughts that will drive you insane.

Poof. They're gone.
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