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Originally Posted by Seaver
I disagree. Feeling attracted to your partner is absolutely required for a relationship to work. This Love-is-blind is a great ideal, but does anyone want to have sex with someone they are not attracted to physically?
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I don't disagree with that at all, but I don't believe that anyone should lose weight for the sole purpose of fearing that weight gain is going to be a deal breaker in their relationship (speaking hypothetically--not saying that's the case here).
My point is
not that he has to learn to live with how she is and somehow magically become attracted to her--it's that if her weight is this big of a deal, then this relationship can't last.