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Um, so when a kiss is not spontaneous, how does that go? Only scenario I can think of is one person asking the other whether they can kiss them - is that what you mean?
I like a first kiss after a good conversation, where you've learned a little more about the other person and a bond has been created. When you look at the other person's eyes and are silent for a moment, a kiss feels right. I like it to be more surprising too, when I'm not quite expecting it.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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