I have been watching this and, as I said elsewhere today, "Watching video of Neda I feel like a voyeur of an intimate scene. I realize this might help the cause but it still smells of exploitation."
This article about Neda with interviews of her friends and family adds more context:
Family, friends mourn 'Neda,' Iranian woman who died on video - Los Angeles Times
In the end, I feel that this rebellion in Iran has become somewhat of a spectator sport. I am drawn to it as I am drawn to any good narrative and I am equally repulsed by my detachment from it... I am still trying to process it all.
At times, Neda's death feels like a Jessica Lynch moment and I hate that I am feeling that way.