Originally Posted by genuinegirly

3 pieces of advice:

1 - Try avoiding masturbating for an extended period of time before having sex with a partner. The relief of finally having sex will make up for some of it.

2 - You know how you tick, if you don't enjoy the adventure of your partner figuring out how you tick, don't be afraid to show them.

3 - Sex can be a very mental thing. Getting yourself in the right frame of mind is important. Setting up the situation with your lover can be key to having more enjoyable sex.