thanks .. gonna try and get it narrowed down.. I do not get alot of sleep anymore due to stress, that could be a reason as well. And I have noticed the fluids as well, normally extremely dehydrated afterwards
... and most times it's worth it . Just the headaches aren't terrible just a lingering pain and for only a short period of time afterwards so thats what so confusing about them. Nothing I do afterwards but go to sleep helps them. I have done some research on the web and found that low blood pressure can cause it. I've even tried the big O on my own and don't seem to get them that way , but through intercourse and having the O I get them :/. I'm gonna give it a few more tries and see how it goes. Try to pay attention to what I've done before and see if that affects it, also may even start a sex diary, lol But do wanna thank y'all for the advice
Nice to have a place to come and ask questions, lord knows going to a doctor most times and explaining to them something, they look at you like you've lost your mind and makes you feel like an idiot for even asking.