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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
(I love you Shani.) Dude, don't ask that question. NEVER ask a question if you might not want to hear the answer. What if she says, "an engagement ring???" (and you aren't ready for that yet.) Talk about awkward.  |
Then you say, "I'm not ready for that, yet" and explain why not. If it turns out she has to be engaged now and it's a deal-breaker for her, better to find out by asking her than waiting until she gets pissed off enough to leave you high and dry over it. Besides, after it's over she might actually end up agreeing with you that your relationship isn't as ready for that step as she thought.