| I don't know that I'd call a shirt a big ticket item.  Trips, yes.
 Personally, I love presents, so I just can't relate at all.  However, the OP does makes me wonder if she grew up in a house like the one my SO grew up in, where gifts come with strings and expectations, instead of being true gifts.  That might be part of it, beyond pride.
 
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