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Ralphie,
It's clear I need to frame something so you know where I am coming from. I'm a family guy. I take the vow to my wife extremely seriously. I believe it was a life long contract and I obligated myself to her for life. I believe I owe it to her to be the best husband I can be. I owe it to my child to be the best father I can be. I believe that the diminishing value that our society and its individuals place on these vows and commitments is responsible for a majority of the problems our society faces. I just want you to know "who" is supplying this type of advice. Unless there is some sort of abuse, I am ALWAYS going to steer you towards self-improvement, communication, and strengthening your family bonds.
Others in here have different ways of looking at things and it is good that you have the opportunity to read opposing views. I may disagree with them, but I know them well enough to say that they are intelligent guys. You should look at all the information provided and make the best decision for you.
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Gives a man a halo, does mead.
"Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."
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