First, though you didn't ask, two suggestions. Go to sizewise.com for many resources for large women. A book suggested there, called Big, Big Love, by Hanne Blank, has a lot of info/suggestions on sexual positions that work well for larger people.
To answer your query. My weight has fluctuated 100 lbs. over my life time thus far.
When I was very big, exposing my naked body to my lover bothered me a lot. Getting a comfy sexual positon was difficult and I never wanted the lights on, even tho' my lover preferred to be able to see me. Also, I declined his suggestions to shower together. I had a lot of body shame & hatred.
I regret now that I wasted many intimate moments. No matter what my size, I am a sexual person- and I will no longer let my body shape or size get in the way of being fully sexual, alone or with my partner.
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Originally posted by Divine69
Does your body size affect your sex life?
I know it affects mine...It sucks to only be able to do it a couple of ways because I am so big
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