I think there are some people out there in the world that truely believe they can have a relationship such that they can have sex with others and remain committed to each other anyway. I haven't seen one that worked for long, but have to admit it could be *possible*.
If you want someone in your life who wants only you, keep looking. If you're not in a relationship when you find the right someone, then you're ready to start something. I've met someone years ago that seemed really neat, but the whole time we knew each other, one or the other of us were always in a relationship with someone else. Unless you've made a commitment, end anything that doesn't work for you, so you're free to start something that might. (just my 2 cents worth, feel free to ignore me)
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