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Originally posted by ratbastid
Come to think of it, I've even said it before that I've said it before! And I'll say it again that I'll say it again! 
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SOMEbody needs more coffee this morning.
My first thought, too, was why you were jumping straight to that conclusion...
I assume you're both pretty young? Maybe she's insecure, not ready, self-conscious about something... there are all sorts of reasons. Playing passive-aggressive games is never going to make it any better. Talk to her directly about it. It may take revisiting the topic more than a couple times for her to feel like opening up about it, so don't expect a magic solution the first time you confront it. Frequently, when people have a hard time talking about something, it'll take some time to draw them out, even if they want to talk about it.