As for being with another girl - I personally take it slow because most of the girls I'm with are newer to the girl on girl thing. I watch that they are comfortable with things. I have one friend who I'm quite comfortable with. We've showered together a few times and done other fun things. We kiss and fondle often. With new girls though I tend to shy away from kissing. They seem to as well. It's just the eye to eye and kissing that seems more intimate and "loveing" instead of just sexual pleasure.
With guys the kissing doesn't matter so much. That may be just that I'm more familiar with sexual pleasure with men than women am still just a little shy with women.
Most of the time with women it's all about pleasure and "showing off" for the guys that we're with. My one girl friend more more loving too but we've gotten closer and talk often. With guys it's more about pleasure. With hubby it's about love.
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