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This is an exact quote from my post in the Ladies Lounge on the same subject.
No orgasms during sex, ever. It makes me so sad. I can almost always get myself off, but never in the presence of my man (unless he's asleep). Its totally a psychological thing, but it always gets the better of me. I think that the cause is an unpleasant experience with an ex. I'm not sure that I'm very comfortable talking about that in particular, but I know that whenever I have sex, and often when I begin to masturbate, I am completely in a void. Its still pleasurable, but the pleasure seems so distance and orgasm is totally out of reach. When I masturbate, I have to concentrate really hard, usually fantasize about specific things, and then I can make it. Even when I masturbate, if I am close, but then get distracted, I have to start all over again. I wish there was some way to fix me.
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